Baby, bring me something new today and every day.  There are so many ways to do this, each….and….every….day.

Tell me something good. Sing to me. Say something brilliant. Teach me something. Try a new kiss. Dance and play an instrument while coming to bed. Be sexy and whisper in my ear.  Show me those abs and let me see you do some sit ups. Let’s share our favorite dessert.  Toast with me about life. Treat me like I am not your wife. Let’s always only be Lovers!  Don’t always think of me as your husband.   Act like we just met.  Let’s watch Kevin Hart and laugh until we cry!

We can share something today we did not know about each other. Kiss me someplace new.  Allow me in your vulnerable place.  Inspire me. Desire me.  Conspire with me on the success of life.

The point is, bring me something new and I will too.  Not that I am waiting on you to do, but as I do, you too have something to do.

Life does not have to be ho-hum.  It does not have to be about the times we don’t agree. (There are endless possibilities of fun in a disagreement.) A disagreement can become a battle of the minds to see whose view is correct, based on fact. If we can engage in a mind challenge with a winner’s pleasure at the end, our disagreements can become interesting.  With the loser providing the pleasure, in truth, we both win, every….single….time. Neither you nor I mind providing pleasure and we sure don’t mind receiving.

This relationship does not need habituality, sole individuality, or inundation with the betrayal of politics, and the continual mind spinning of corporate news. It must not be all about how we struggle to see the world in its good as well as its treachery.

It’s you and me.  That’s what it winds down to. When I come home, I need you to hold me, kiss me and throw me on the bed in fun or to get it on. When I walk through the door, seeing you smile, makes the hard knocks of my day all worth while.  We can talk until the wee hours of the morning sharing the depths of our heart, bonding, snuggling, and sexing again.

All I want from you and what you will get from me is something good and something different every day.

It does not take much, it only takes a thought. It does not take cash; it just takes a dash of creativity.  You, me and creativity in harmony and longevity.

We wake up grateful for another day. Monday or Friday, it does not matter, it is another day we have the breath of life.  Another day to shape and choose how we will live it.

Being together doesn’t mean doomed by gloom. It does not mean we know everything about each other. Do you know my deepest fear? Do you really know how much I love you, and can you measure it?  What is my deepest desire?  What is my fantasy?  When I wake up late in the night lying still, do you know what I am thinking?

Rather than thinking we have been there and done that, we should be thinking been where and done what?

There is always a new discovery to find. Always a new story to share, a new challenge to overcome, and a victory to win. There is always a weakness to strengthen or a fear to expose.  A little more of self to build and give.  A position we’ve not done in the science of sex.  A thought not yet conceived.

In doing these things we avoid the redundancy, the boring familiarity of the same touch, the same position, or the same view we may need to renew. It removes the ho-hum and ignites the excitement of oh, ooh, yes, and hmm!

You and I can become quite a pair, because every day we come closer to knowing, yet we don’t take advantage, nor take for granted the secrets of what we know.

There is more to know and more to see.  Together the world is ours— history, finance, politics, music, art, taking in the good, analyzing the bad, your deepest thoughts and mine, are the beginning of the something new we both will bring each….and….every….day.