Partners: Homosexual & Heterosexual?

There are more and more situations arising regarding the devastating impacts of heterosexuals finding out that their partner is gay.

There is nothing but chaotic devastation and destruction that comes from a relationship that is full of contradictions, sexual differences, catastrophic lies, intertwined with layers of emotional and psychological damage that the heterosexual will need to recover— if total recovery is possible at all.

I was watching a YouTube special hosted by Oprah and there were two ministers who said, “Being Gay is a Gift from God”.  Oprah said, “You are the first 2 ministers I have ever heard say that”.   I must admit.  That was a first for me also.

The truth is, “Being born is a Gift from God”.  Life is a gift.

There has been an outcry for reparation for blacks for decades.  That is one outcry that has yet to be addressed.  However, there appears to be many platforms that are launched to rally everyone on the same platform for acceptance, and equal rights for gays.   Obama is making every necessary provision to address the cries for gays.

As far as acceptance goes, there have been numerous homosexuals hiding in heterosexual relationships, including marriage.  The term “Down Low” should not exist in a relationship.  How can we accept you when you are hiding and lying?  If you truly want acceptance, then support your own platform by giving the heterosexual a choice of whether he/she wants to enter into a loving relationship with you.

We all make life decisions that no one can make for us. Live life as you must and as you will.  But no one should have to suffer at the hand of any human being who practices to deceive, mislead and betray.

Fighting the homosexual battle is tough enough as indicated by the necessity of many platforms, parades and fighting for rights.  Hiding and faking it makes you a fraud. Not because of what you choose to be; which is your right to be, but to be a hypocrite, liar, deceiver, fake, and living an alternate life to betray another human being, for your selfishness, fear of exposure and deceptiveness makes you a user, and those characteristics are unacceptable by any decent human standards.

Confused?  Then be confused alone. Figure it out.  Don’t create chaotic confusion for someone else, and especially not the children.

Women who were unknowingly involved or married to a homosexual have had children.  Many children have been twisted and confused in seeing, hearing and believing their parent to be one thing, only to find out, what they have been raised to believe was not the truth.  Children who should be emotionally protected and nurtured, in these cases, must be violated with a truth they are not necessarily capable of handling.

The action of hiding does not generate acceptance, it generates and perpetuates non acceptance, incites anger, throes of pain, and suspicion of others being gay who may not be gay.

How can you fight for respect for what you are, when you will not be openly honest about who you are?

Society has a hard time respecting politicians when they have been found out as liars.  There is a standard that all people hold all others by.  It is called honesty.

About dontdestroyrelationship

I am passionate about Relationships. To be in a Relationship you need skills. Some of the best skills to have are: a creative perspective, strategy in developing a win-win for both sides, be able to speak and receive honest communication, stay persistent, yet calm in conflict, some negotiation skills, and humor. These skills and more you need--- without emotion. If you have logic as the primary and emotion as secondary, there is nothing you cannot overcome in a relationship. I tell you how you bring destroyers into your relationship. Join me! It is a fascinating and revealing journey.
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