Quality of Life – Quality of Love

Your quality of life impacts your quality of love.

How are we living? Are we thriving, striving and making decisions that move our lives on an upward swing to progression? Or are we barely doing it, barely making it; and waiting for something good to happen. Hoping for better times, rather than finding ways to make times better?

No wonder we are not happy in our relationships. We are not living the quality of life we deserve. Yes, we deserve!

We are caught up like a hamster in a cage, running in place on a wheel to the point that even our sub consciousness is bored with our consciousness. We continue with this mentality, creating a ho hum drum of the mill relationship.

Your quality of life impacts your quality of love.

We lack appreciation. We lack passion! We lack chutzpah. We lack vision. We lack the energy and the urgency to drive and navigate our lives!

We are just settling to be whatever; and to do whatever. We are doing just enough to get by on the job. Just enough to get through the day in our family business. Just enough to make a dollar. And we wonder why we are not reaping in abundance. We wonder why we are always broke! Our mindsets are set to the bare minimum!

Change your course! Yes, you can! You have too much at stake not to.

Every day you wake up; you have one more chance to create change. You wake up to a new day, one you have never seen before. In the course of one year you wake up 365 times. This means you have 365 chances to make the change for you! The change you want. The change you can have!

Stop being held hostage! If you have a job you do not like— look for another! Work hard, do your thing, and search for something you want. Or if you want to build something for you— work hard, stack your cash and work on your goals after work to build for yourself.

If you are a believer in the saying, “You make your bed, you lie in it.” You had better quit! First try changing the covers and the sheets. If that does not bring the change you need, throw the whole damn bed away!

I heard a statement on the series, Bones, where an intern said, “The difference between a try and triumph is the umph! “ Have you seen the DVD called the “Secret?” The power lies in your mind to do whatever you want, while generating the Laws of Attraction to work for you and draw everything you need for you, to do you!

Your quality of life impacts your quality of love.

We are miserable because we choose to be. We are boring because we opt to be. We are dead men walking, because we will not choose life. We are sick because we won’t seek the cure. We are unmotivated because we stopped believing. We have replaced appreciation for entitlement. We go to church and still need saving!

We compete with those who are for us. Resist those that love us. Question those who support us. Blame others when there is no one to blame but us.

We fight over the inconsequential because we lack the potential, to create the bigger battles to fight.

Your quality of life impacts your quality of love.

Choose from this day forward to live life in the same spirit you use in the game, “Truth or Dare.” Choose the dare— always. You can read about the truth. What most folk think is truth is not “fact” any way. Seek the facts for yourself. Always take the dare simply to program yourself to learn to take a risk.

Risk? We do it every day. We risk leaving the house and being shot down or hit by a vehicle. We risk sitting in the house, to be shot while sitting in the living room. We risk going to work every day— not knowing that the senior management staff could very well be in talks of massive layoffs. We risk sending our children away from our arms and corrals of safety. These risks come with living.

Take risks, open your heart and love! Give Life, be Life and do Life in every dynamic and every dimension of your life. Stop rationing what you do. Go forward! Full speed ahead. Go hard in everything you do! Live these 365 days as you never have before!

What you do in your life that improves or decays the quality of life for you, impacts your relationship. You will most likely either provide the decay for the destruction, or you will provide the growth for betterment in your relationship.

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About dontdestroyrelationship

I am passionate about Relationships. To be in a Relationship you need skills. Some of the best skills to have are: a creative perspective, strategy in developing a win-win for both sides, be able to speak and receive honest communication, stay persistent, yet calm in conflict, some negotiation skills, and humor. These skills and more you need--- without emotion. If you have logic as the primary and emotion as secondary, there is nothing you cannot overcome in a relationship. I tell you how you bring destroyers into your relationship. Join me! It is a fascinating and revealing journey.
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4 Responses to Quality of Life – Quality of Love

  1. Liz Willis says:

    Wow! Yet another illustrious piece!

    It’s great how you “pull” your readers from the closet and admonish them to LIVE LIFE! Quality of Life Vs. Quality of Love. Taking risk, going for it, without the illusion of what another may say or think, is the best way to earn your quality! Your pure quality of life, may empower another to live theirs!

  2. DiscoGoddess says:

    So many times I tried to motivate him to climb the corporate ladder, increase the family’s income and I gave him job leads. I improved his resume, gave him suggestions about applying in his company and nothing. Later I resented him so much and ended the relationship. I didn’t want to pay a majority of the bills alone. Then I knew I had to be with someone that’s ambitious not complacent.

  3. Kudos to you Sistah Goddess! To end a relationship is very hard. And although the decision must be made, it has to be done. For you to take the strength and not work around a necessary need to keep your relationship economically successful, among other necessary commonalities, says a lot to your character and you taking control of your life.

    • DiscoGoddess says:

      Thanks Queen. The disappointment of a relationship ending is something I had to face. The frustration of being with a man that settled for low wages when I knew he was skilled to earn more was too much to live with, especially when he relied on my finances and we both have children. Relationships are difficult to say the least.

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