We are either not sexing each other in a way that is healthy and fulfilling, or we are not having sex on a regular basis.
We cannot continue to neglect each other sexually. If having sex regularly is what it takes for some of us— then give it to us. No one should have access to a punanny and a pipe just for viewing. We can buy that as art work. Sex is one of the hottest spices of life, and it is necessary to our existence.
When you deprive us of sex, sexual deprivation creates an emptiness, where eventually, we will not look at you sexually. We may suppress the need of sex for you, but we cannot remove it for you. Soon, we become bored with you. Under these circumstances you crack the door for us to get it elsewhere.
If you are limited in the sex department and your partner is unlimited— Boredom to Whoredom! (Whoredom in the context of this post applies to women and men.) If you use the same position all the time, and if you are tired all of the time— or even most of the time. Can’t get it up sometime. Can’t find it. Can’t grind it. What! Boredom to Whoredom!
Sex is a science. The book called, “Tao of Sexology” (Chang) teaches this. If you are not working the science with sex, you are missing out! There are also some sexual exercises you and your sexy one can do. Practice the exercises with the challenge of keeping the longevity of the act. The exercises force you to enjoy the feel of the ridge and the shaft, while he is enjoying and exploring you.
The fun is in the bed, on the floor, by the door, on the shelf—– is you deaf!
When we are not sexed right, we are tight! And it shows in different behaviors. We become sloppy, grumpy, lumpy, slouchy, grouchy, bitchy and witchy. And we wonder why are we bored!
Men, if you are always anxious, and right when the grind is grinding, and you stop to release the oil during the moving machine— learn to breathe Mother Flower! Stop frustrating her. Learn to breathe!
How can you keep your sex life going, steady and strong? Be sexual. Do workouts. Keep a positive and powerful outlook on life every day. Do your kegels—everyday. In order to be sexually creative, you have to think about it. Read about it. Study it. Being a sexual expert is a lot of fun.
Make some sex rules. Every time he lifts that tool belt, you be the screwdriver! If your sexy one is a brilliant man, every time he expounds something to you, don’t you see that as sexy? Rock him steady while asking him with low breathy tones to talk to you. He sexes your mind while you sex his body. Men, if she bends over to do something, take her! If she is getting dressed, throw her on the bed. Take it!
Ladies! Now this is not for everybody. (Why is that again?) If you are deficient in proteins, vitamins, and minerals, the healthy male sperm has the nutrients equivalent to “…two pieces of New York steak, 10 eggs, six oranges, and two lemons combined.” (Chang)
Girl, go and get your breakfast!
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Wow wow and wow. We have a lot to discuss. Love it though.
Communication is the key to any relationship. It is most interesting that someone is addressing the 800 pound gorilla in the room(sex). Humans or animals in general seek pleasure and avoid pain. Is there anything more pleasurable than sex? The act itself is motivating but the topic in general is mentally stimulating. Thank you for waking us up. We can now get right to the large topic in every room that men and women occupy.
Mahdi,
Thank you for your insightful perspective. We talk about sex, but we are not doing a good job in delivery and satisfaction. If we take the topic from a holistic perspective, we would be more satisfied, fulfilled, (thrilled) and able to better navigate in the course of our lives. Life is tough enough, so the bed should be our (sanctuary) if you will. Feel free to provide input anytime. Thank you! Pass this on, as this is a message we need to deliver to improve our statistical relationship failure.
Thank you dontdestroyrelationship I enjoyed this reading. I’m looking forward to more good talks. I strongly agree with you. Sex is very important for women as well as the men. The more you get it the less time you have to gossip and to put your fellow sister down. Think about that… Breathe Easy A…
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